Only time will tell if we're even compatible enough for a relationship. But if you just want to have fun and like younger women, go for it! All of this makes dating more and more complex as we get older. My sense of style has improved, because my years of chasing children are complete though I can still reproduce — my focus is more on me than on anybody else. So many say age is just a number. So long as the younger woman has a mature head on his shoulders and knows the remarkable nature of the relationship dynamic and how lucky she is and they often do! No offense intended to the mature beautiful we all know and love, but younger women are happy to take a tumble at any time of day or night — not just for scheduled Saturday Night Sex. Thanks Nick, This is a great article.
I met some interesting ladies and rediscovered my sexual appetite. Yes, we all want stability, and to not stress over being able to afford things that we want, or want to provide for our children, like a good education. Then once you provide the security the other things such as your good looks, good sex, help with cleaning etc. He started looking 60, whereas he looked younger than his age when we met. But consider this: You may want to explore in ways you never felt comfortable when you were younger.
And to be honest, when I was 19 into my30s, women would snarl at me, make remarks or rumors, because men flocked me to me or gave me consideration. The anger seems so disproportionate to the offender. Perhaps I have this personal self-preservation alone, but I know for sure, the reality of older men seemingly being massed by younger women is financial stability, for a temporary contract, then the debt is paid off. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. This is basically a fun, you can share things with one another and spread the love to your friendship groups as well. I think that if you meet somebody you like and are attracted to, you meet somebody you like and are attracted to.
Early to mid 30s yeah, but no one could have made me believe that this man was 46 when we met that was his age. Good luck to you and your man. My husband is 22 years older than me. You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? Or at least all of those commenting on here! It was sickening, he would lie about everything. Go out with people because you want to be naked with them and still hang out with them after. She was elegant, witty, acomplished, very sexual and drop dead gorgeous. Forgive me for not expounding upon the topic to your satisfaction.
I dated recently with 22 year old girl — at first it was lots of fun, but after a couple of dates I got bored. I also worry that I may miss out on someone that is closer to my age. First marriage was for 13 years and yielded my 2 sons, second marriage was for 18 years and established my financial security and business. I go to her house and visit with the entire family. All three of you only mentioned all the details after I challenged what was written. Schwartz every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
I love my guy so much and he is so good to me. Looking to settle down in the next couple of years. And withoutmy loving husband a hand to squeeze. I worry about what things will be like 5 or 10 years from now when I am 35-40 and she is in her mid 50's. But I love the life I share with him.
You may want to make up for lost time after a less than monumental marital sex life. I am so proud to be her fiance, soon to be married. Now see how silly that sounds? I have asked her if she has seen anyone else since we met and she told me no. I spent a fair amount of time researching this subject, I was amazed at how many unhappy marriages there are and at how long many people stayed in those marriages. Greed is a common human trait, which is easily participated in by both men and women. But I advise her how slowly she can get back on her feet.
Would it even be fair to her to be stuck with a man whom will probably be old and wrinkled before she hits 40? Sure, we all tend to grow more opinionated as we get a little older, and some of us are young at heart and open-minded forever. Hypocritically, the best females all flock to the best male mates—which are almost all alphas. If you are very rich, she will still leave you and collect alimony. Before I get attacked as somehow being sexist…look at the anecdotal evidence. So I find it hilarious when I see women hate on older men for chasing younger girls when they themselves often find older men sexy. They are willing to throw away long loving relationships with women for a night of lust.
I like to dance, love new music, technology etc. My own dad was affectionate with his 3 daughters but it was clear that my mom was his girl. Turned out he felt the Same but was just too shy because of the huge age gap. We still live in an age where men get to age like credenzas, and women like unrefrigerated dairy. A recent article in magazine looked at a handful of real-life May-December romances, focusing mainly on those between older women and younger men. Older women, on the other hand, often lose their soft charm as a result of undergoing more ups and downs in life.